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Ever been in relationship and noticed how you or your partner seemed to be following a sort of unspoken emotional “script” or “dance” leading the two down a path where triggers, difficulties, arguments, challenges, insecurities, and limitations seemed to get the best of you?
If you’ve been on this planet for long enough, you have noticed that these patterns are more or less repeated for you and your partners. Perhaps you are the warm loving one and your partner is the distant one. Perhaps you are the one who needs their freedom and your partner is the needy clingy one. Perhaps you are both so much the same (or your partner is just “okay*) that there is no tension between you and the result is, well, boredom. Perhaps the differences are so wide that while you’re having the most beautiful romantic love story of your life and and the hottest sex, you also know that this simply will not work on the long term, because deep down inside you know that what creates the sexual and emotional tension is also what makes this relationship incredibly *unsustainable*. And perhaps you’ve seen yourself enter these relationships again and again and again, always knowing that something is up but never quite knowing WHY.
Enter Attachment Theory, the remarkable view of relationships that seems to pretty much explain EVERYTHING.
If you have not yet, take a minute to read this hilarious article:
http://www.theestablishment.co/2016/08/04/if-people-had-honest-first-date-conversations/
Could you relate to either the men or the woman? Chances are you did. Or you read the article and thought: “These people are crazy! I don’t relate to either one bit.”. You’ll likely stand on either side. If you related more to the man, you likely have an avoidant attachment style. If you related more to the women, you likely have an anxious attachment style. If you didn’t relate to either, you likely have a secure attachment style.
And regardless of who you related to, this class is for you, because whether you are secure or insecure, you will be in relationship with people who are both, and knowing about attachment theory and recognizing and knowing how to work with people with various attachment styles is one of the single most useful skills you can have in life. That is, unless you are alone and never need to relate to another soul again.
For the rest of us, let’s continue.
In this class, you will learn...
★ More deeply about the various attachment styles (including the lesser known but important one called “fearful anxious” aka “anxious avoidant” aka disorganized)
★ The various cultural archetypes associated with the various attachment styles, so you’ll begin to see them in all the mainstream stories and movies.
★ How sociopaths, narcissists and people with borderline personality disorder fit within the various attachment styles.
★ To recognize the “smoking guns” of the various attachment styles
★ To engage well with people with various attachment styles, and have realistic expectations of them
★ The difference between “who you want” and “what you need” in relationships (tip: it’s what you’re lacking the most) and why these two often don’t align, and what it takes to make them align.
★ To experience and compare the somatic and emotional experience of engaging with each attachment style
★ To begin down the path of creating a more secure attachment style for yourself and others, and setting your life for success.
(Note: In the next class we will expand on the topic of the steps to becoming more secure)
This should fill a 3 hour class nicely.
Reserve your spot here: http://attachmentexquisitelove.eventbrite.com/
If you have questions, please PM me <3
See you there!
What is Exquisite Love Coaching?
Exquisite Love Coaching is yours truly (Philippe Lewis) open sourcing his bits of clarity and wisdom. His purpose is to support YOU and your COMMUNITY on the path of exploration of love, intimacy, relationships, sensuality, and sexuality. His deepest wish is that while on that path, you will meet others like you, love them, and create community with them so that everyone is included and no one is left behind. When we come together, wisdom and support naturally arise, and this is how SHIFT, INTEGRATION, and GROWTH happens! Welcome to the new paradigm of living and relating. Welcome to the path of Exquisite Love.