PODCAST: BDSM, attuned touch, safety and exploring the edges of your yes (Passion Poscast)
In this rich episode Saora Love has a beautiful conversation with Phillippe Lewis about a broad array of topics. Such as touch, how to touch well, listening, consent, awareness, BDSM, pushing the edge of your yes, after care, sovereignty, polyamory/monogamy... And much more.
1:58 Who is Phillippe.
4:48 Touch… How to touch and listen well.
8:00 Understanding the polarities of feminine and masculine touch.
10:35 energetic agility… The balance of masculine and feminine, internally and externally.
13:50 How to be truly current and honest about how touch is being received.
20:27 how men can learn to trust a woman’s body as a guidance system.
22:50 what does safety feel like?
25:55 when Phillippe and Saora had a deep connection at a festival.
29:30 BDSM and pushing the edge of your yes.
33:44 Role play and the potential healing benefits.
35:25 What does Saora find exciting about BDSM and pushing the edge.
37:00 How BDSM can be an art of taking someone into a trauma state safely to have the opportunity to heal.
40:30 The importance of the way the sub is guided out.
42:40 After care.
47:20 how to cut cords/unravel energetically and return to sovereignty.
49:50 Saora’s journey with polyamory and monogamy.
53:00 Phillippe asks Saora to share her current relationship desires.
58:00 Saora shares whet she’d need in a partner now to not get distracted off her path.