PODCAST: Is Polyamory for Me?

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PODCAST: Is Polyamory for Me?

I was recently in an Poly podcast. It's chock-full of useful information to help you decide and make the first steps, along with many experts on the matter (including yours truly!)

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You Are Enough

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You Are Enough

I know that (some of) you want me or a man or another person to tell you you are enough, to know what someone outside of you believes that you are perfect as you are, that you are worth it. 

But it's not for me to say. 

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Are You Ready To Show Up Powerfully For Women?

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Are You Ready To Show Up Powerfully For Women?

Showing up powerfully for women means supporting them in a way that increases their power and freedom.

To support and empower women, you need to learn to "get" them so that when they grow and learn and face challenges and get triggered, you move with them without surprise, without reaction, without fear. 

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Thank You For Your Trust

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Thank You For Your Trust

Thank you for your trust. Like for many women, I get that it might not be easy to allow a man to get close to you, to touch you or have sex with you, that it is a big deal to let me in because even though you've developed amazing discernment skills to figure out which man is for real and which man isn't, there's still a chance a man will come in under the radar and take something from you because he feels entitled to your body or your heart. I get it's not easy to tell if I'm one of those men or not, regardless of what I say or do.

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Graceful Connections: The 5 keys to What Women Want

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Graceful Connections: The 5 keys to What Women Want

Last summer, I went to a festival with a lover. As I picked her up from the airport and first saw her, something in my body shifted, a pleasurable feeling arose. I said “How do you feel?”. She said “I’m so excited to see you!”. As her words sunk in (and lips connected with mine), they met with the feelings in my body, confirming what I already knew. I asked “What would you like most for the weekend?”, and she responded “For us to dance and make friends and enjoy each other deeply! But I will need to get some good sleep too -- I had a big week!”. Again, all of her words, body and gaze spoke to me of a particular “way” that she was, right at that moment, moving in a certain direction, with some internal “destination” in mind. I was reading her with all my senses, and all that she was expressing every moment was confirming that I was reading her well. “I might need to keep you up longer than you think”, I said with a wink, and her response was, with a beaming smile, “Not if I’m the one keeping YOU up!”.  

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Destin Gerek’s response to Julien Blanc

I have nothing but good things to say about this video from my friend Destin Gerek . 

If you want to do good things in the world as a man, watch this, learn, and go deeper and truer. 

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7 Steps To Apologizing And Clearing Your Karma

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7 Steps To Apologizing And Clearing Your Karma

If you hurt someone, an apology is the most powerful way to clear things up / dissipate karma. Here's how we do it:

1. Ask the other person to tell you the impact your actions had on them. Make sure the other person knows you really get it.

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